When hanging out with the girls or at casual places, feel free to cross your legs whichever way comfortable but avoid flashing A lady sits with her legs together and not apart... When attending a business meeting or a professional function, crossing your legs by the ankles will be appropriate if you wish to cross your legs. Stay tuned for more tips #bealady #etiquettepoiseresource #poise | Etiquette Poise & Protocol Resource Academy